I did the job of staying at home. I entered zero posts in that time. I am back to the job. During the time that I was exclusively parenting, I didn't find time to reflect in my spare time. If that kid was sleeping (ie. the only time you get a moment to yourself) is used that time to either sleep or clean with out the kid from undoing everything from behind me or watch motorsports or watch movies (since babies don't take well to guns and blood and sex and all that good movie stuff)
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I didn't make friends with the other parents since the Korean women are too conservative to get buddy-buddy with a strange man. There was a group of moms that were really friendly and fun, but turned to be a cult-y church group. I told them not to talk to me about their church anymore and they disappeared.
I did get a good understanding of my son and he of me. That is not to say that we are best of buds, but in times of conflict we have a calm, clear understanding of one another. We enjoy our pleasant time together more for it and the angry times are shorter and more productive since we understand each other well.
Any father should stay-at-home (sic). If you are taking the time to expend all the energy and emotion of parenting, you should learn the full picture of your child's world by being a full-time care-giver
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